Could I possibly be joining my first band?

[jdogric12]

Be prepared to decide to 1) be a complete a-hole and have things your way, or 2) make lots of compromises and have lots of fun. In recent years I've switched from 1 to 2.

I dunno, Dog, I think I'd like to try number one for a change. Maybe it would succeed

In some ways, yes, some ways, no. You seem pretty cool to me, Kira, so I'd advise against changing!!