About a girl

nattiep · Post by **nattiep** » Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:27 pm

It's not like all of my friends are giving advice, just the one. The others just think it'd be cool that I'd finally get her after waiting all this time. And I'd rather have advice seeing how I've never really had a problem like this before. Running it blind wouldn't help.. all it'd do would make me look like an ***, so help.. um... helps.

Speaking of Myspace, that's how I talk to her. She.. um.. "Doesn't like phones" so I write her stuff.

sowhat · Post by **sowhat** » Tue Aug 15, 2006 8:16 pm

Yeah, i know, "stupid learn from their own mistakes, wise learn from the others' mistakes". Well... some, like yours truly, cannot learn even from their own mistakes.

If you want to get her - get her. That's all i can say. You can do it!

jps · Post by **jps** » Wed Aug 16, 2006 3:09 am

"She.. um.. "Doesn't like phones" so I write her stuff"

Hmm..she certainly doesn't seem to be too personable. I'd look for someone truly interested in you for who you are, just my ...

nattiep · Post by **nattiep** » Wed Aug 16, 2006 7:36 am

I'm gonna take her to a movie tomorrow.. and go for it.. not like try and suck her face off, but tell her how I feel and pour my heart out.. if she says no.. well. I dunno.

sowhat · Post by **sowhat** » Wed Aug 16, 2006 7:48 am

I'll say it again - you can do it! And if it wouldn't work - well, maybe it's just not worth the trouble?.. We all know you're a great guy, right?

(one more "proverb" - sorry, cannot resist: "If a woman says "no", that means "maybe"; if a woman says "maybe", that means "yes"; if a woman says "yes", that's not..." - i think it's clear what the ending is

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nattiep · Post by **nattiep** » Wed Aug 16, 2006 9:18 am

My usual catch phrase is "You love it". I say that a lot, mostly when I do something annoying. She always said "No, I don't." but recently she said "Um.. maybe."

sowhat · Post by **sowhat** » Wed Aug 16, 2006 9:20 am

In this case, i wish you a happy maybe, mate!

rob · Post by **rob** » Wed Aug 16, 2006 9:09 pm

Just be careful that she doesn't lure you into the jewelry store!

woodsgirl · Post by **woodsgirl** » Thu Aug 17, 2006 6:51 am

Nate, rather than pour your heart out, why not just kiss her? You can kiss can't you? Don't make it a sloppy one, or tongue her or anything, just a real sweet affectionate kiss and see what happens then. That may say more than words. I can just imagine you slipping your arm around her in the movie..........way to go! You could even start just holding her hand.

sowhat · Post by **sowhat** » Thu Aug 17, 2006 7:45 am

Agreed, Kaia - sometimes kisses say more than words.

woodsgirl · Post by **woodsgirl** » Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:16 am

Thanks, Sheena, I am single and I know how I feel about this stuff! I have men doing strange things all the time. The very WORST is when they tell you about how they want a relationship and how and why and what kind. Heck, just a slow dance and polite kiss is the best way to say all that and not come off as a jack@ss! That way, if the gal is not interested, she can just back off and no one has their feelings hurt. Just acting as if it never happened, is a "no". If she likes it, the guy will know right away........

sowhat · Post by **sowhat** » Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:23 am

Never been told that, to be true. "Plans? What plans?!" Oh well - in fact, my first "boyfriend" in kindergarten (don't get me wrong - "boyfriend" in this case, for 6 years old, means "a boy who's a friend"!) used to make plans... including the way we're gonna get money. He suggested we're gonna live on the money i found in the streets (yep. i used to find coins in the streets almost every day back then). Oh, Alex, where are you now, i wonder?

sowhat · Post by **sowhat** » Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:25 am

PS: hey, Kaia, is it okay we reveal "women's secrets" here?

woodsgirl · Post by **woodsgirl** » Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:06 am

I think this is a great place to reveal women's secrets! THe more men that know, the better! I can't think of anything more irresistable than a Ric-playing gentleman that knows how women (some, anyway) work!

tony_carey · Post by **tony_carey** » Thu Aug 17, 2006 11:20 am

The problem is that you never know!

I met my wife at school, married on my 18th birthday, had a gig on our honeymoon & 28 years later, we're still going strong!