This is one of those songs you either love or hate, I am in the former, great ballad from these guys from Liverpool released in 66.
It made number 26 in UK charts
Epstein apparently wanted to manage them but they turned him down, big mistake in hindsight because only two more singles were released one ironically titled Nobody Waved Goodbye.
I am hoping the guy who played keyboards on the track will join the forum. Be nice to have his perspective
Please Stay - A Crying Shame
Re: Please Stay - A Crying Shame
That was a great tune for that era Roy. I had left England by then, so I missed the debut of that song.
Thanks for letting us hear it.
Thanks for letting us hear it.
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Re: Please Stay - A Crying Shame
I like the singer's shag-type haircut. It's a perrenial favourite of English Rockers to this day.

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Re: Please Stay - A Crying Shame
Roy, the Cryin’ Shames were very much part of my Merseyside musical turf.
Previously known as the Bumblies, they were 1964/65 regulars at the likes of the Rumlin’ Tum and the Sink. Two Liverpool city centre clubs that back then had been newly opened to cater for the second-wave of younger groups that were being inspired by the international and national success of the first.
The then Bumblies recorded their version of Please Stay in London with the help of the infamous Joe Meek – and Decca agreed to release it but not under the name of the Bumblies. Being that Michael Bentine, founder member of the Goons, had previously copyrighted the name for reasons that the Bumblies were also a junior type Goon show of pupett characters that were around on children’s television in the UK at the time.
To quote an online extract from Michael Bentine's entry in Wikipedia
As Roy says, when Joe Meek sent Brian Epstein a copy of Please Stay just before Decca released it. He [Brian Epstein] made an approach to the group to bring them into his NEMS stable of artistes. I understand that Brian Epstein was told, in no uncertain terms, by certain members of the group what he could anatomically do with his offer. With hindsight and considering the then influence of the NEMS organisation, not the wisest thing in the world to have done. The Cryin’ Shames could have certainly done with the additional clout of an outfit like NEMS to get their first UK single higher than number 26 in the UK charts.
For a more indepth profile of the Bumblies / Cryin’ Shames by one of the original members please see…..
http://triumphpc.com/mersey-beat/a-z/bu ... ames.shtml
I very much agree with a quote from the said bio’ that……
Previously known as the Bumblies, they were 1964/65 regulars at the likes of the Rumlin’ Tum and the Sink. Two Liverpool city centre clubs that back then had been newly opened to cater for the second-wave of younger groups that were being inspired by the international and national success of the first.
The then Bumblies recorded their version of Please Stay in London with the help of the infamous Joe Meek – and Decca agreed to release it but not under the name of the Bumblies. Being that Michael Bentine, founder member of the Goons, had previously copyrighted the name for reasons that the Bumblies were also a junior type Goon show of pupett characters that were around on children’s television in the UK at the time.
To quote an online extract from Michael Bentine's entry in Wikipedia
So, the group sat around to disscuss the matter of a name change. Being that they had come to quite like the name 'Bumblies', they thought it was a crying shame that they had to change it – hence the adoption of the name. They also liked the idea that it could be shorted to the Shames, very much in the same way that the Rolling Stones became known simply as the Stones – but that proved to be very much wishful thinking on their part.In 1954 he began as a television presenter with a BBC children's series, The Bumblies. These were three small creatures from outer space who slept on 'Professor' Bentine's ceiling and who had come to our planet to learn the ways of Earthling children.
As Roy says, when Joe Meek sent Brian Epstein a copy of Please Stay just before Decca released it. He [Brian Epstein] made an approach to the group to bring them into his NEMS stable of artistes. I understand that Brian Epstein was told, in no uncertain terms, by certain members of the group what he could anatomically do with his offer. With hindsight and considering the then influence of the NEMS organisation, not the wisest thing in the world to have done. The Cryin’ Shames could have certainly done with the additional clout of an outfit like NEMS to get their first UK single higher than number 26 in the UK charts.
For a more indepth profile of the Bumblies / Cryin’ Shames by one of the original members please see…..
http://triumphpc.com/mersey-beat/a-z/bu ... ames.shtml
I very much agree with a quote from the said bio’ that……
Such could also be universally said about the second-wave of Liverpool groups. Which, in my opinion, was very much a contributing factor to the short-lived nature of the Merseyside musical movement that the likes of the Beatles, Searchers, Pacemakers, etc, had initially pioneered – they simply didn’t have the sustainable talent.I don't believe they were the only reasons for our [Cryin’ Shames] early demise, we were not as talented as some of the bands who had gone before. I don't think any of the second generation bands matched those earlier bands, nor did we have the experience of the Beatles, Searchers, Remo etc. Hamburg gave them something the later groups lacked.
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A good article enjoyed reading it. I would not be certain though that the turning down of Epstein contributed to Meek's depression, it won't have helped as Meek's hit making days were behind him and he perhaps saw this as an opportunity.
In the comments section of the clip I note it is stated the reason they turned Epstein down was they had an offer of £25,000 worth of equipment FOC by another management company.
Also apart from the obvious the hit making days of Epstein's artist's were finished by 66.
They would also have been aware that not every act Epstein took on became successful.
With hindsight they probably got it wrong as I am sure they would have made more than three singles had they gone with Epstein.
In the comments section of the clip I note it is stated the reason they turned Epstein down was they had an offer of £25,000 worth of equipment FOC by another management company.
Also apart from the obvious the hit making days of Epstein's artist's were finished by 66.
They would also have been aware that not every act Epstein took on became successful.
With hindsight they probably got it wrong as I am sure they would have made more than three singles had they gone with Epstein.
