As far as shrinking the photos is concerned - a couple of suggestions:
a) http://www.jpegwizard.com. Limit the picture size (no more than 500x500; "Max W&H pixels") & then save the thumbnail when it's ready. Requires registration;
b) send the pics to a fellow forumite & they can shrink them for you. I could've tried to do that for you if you will.




